JUST PUBLISHED: Robots can’t care — and believing they can will break our health system

We live in an age where technology promises to fix everything — from hospital waiting lists to loneliness. Artificial intelligence is now being tested to monitor patients, predict illness, and even provide “companionship.” But as someone who has lived through the human reality of care systems, I can’t help asking: Can a machine ever truly care?

Technology can do many remarkable things. It can track your heartbeat, remind you to take medication, or alert doctors in emergencies. But care is not just about process — it’s about presence. It’s the hand that reassures you when you’re scared, the voice that listens when you feel invisible, the connection that reminds you that you still matter. No algorithm, however advanced, can replicate that.

I’ve spent years navigating health and social care systems that often forget that simple truth. I’ve seen what happens when bureaucracy replaces empathy — when decisions are made based on cost instead of compassion. Now, as AI becomes the next big solution, I fear we risk making the same mistake all over again, just with shinier tools.

The problem isn’t technology itself. In fact, innovation could transform the lives of disabled people if used responsibly. Smart homes, adaptive devices, and digital assistants have already made independence possible for many who were once trapped by barriers. But what worries me is when we start believing that empathy can be automated — that emotional understanding can be outsourced to software.

During my battle with bladder cancer, I learned that care is an art as much as a science. The best doctors weren’t necessarily the ones with the fanciest machines; they were the ones who looked me in the eye and saw me as a person, not a patient. They made me feel human again. That’s something no line of code can achieve.

The truth is, people don’t just need treatment — they need to be heard. Yet, as funding pressures grow and workloads rise, some leaders see AI as a way to fill emotional gaps in care. There are now “AI companions” being marketed to care homes, promising to keep residents company. But is that company — or just digital loneliness disguised as help?

When care becomes mechanical, people become invisible. The risk isn’t that AI will take over — it’s that it will make us forget what makes us human.

The irony is that empathy is what we most need and what we most overlook. When I fought for my right to independence and for better wheelchair services, the biggest problem wasn’t lack of policy — it was lack of listening. Decisions were made about my life without me in the room. It’s the same principle at play with technology: progress that happens to people, not with them.

I believe AI can be a force for good — but only if it’s guided by people who understand care on a human level. What we need is ethical innovation, not just efficiency. Every new system should start with one question: Does this make someone’s life more human, or less?

That’s where lived experience must lead the way. Policymakers and developers need to listen to those of us who know what it’s like to depend on care — not just as test cases, but as co-creators. Disabled people, older people, and those with long-term conditions should be sitting at the design table, shaping how technology supports dignity and autonomy.

There’s huge potential in AI for accessibility — imagine software that helps people communicate, or predictive tools that prevent crises before they happen. But these innovations must never replace the heart of care. Technology should empower compassion, not erase it.

The danger is not that robots will replace nurses — it’s that we start treating nurses like robots, pressured to perform tasks faster and cheaper at the expense of empathy. Once we start measuring care in metrics instead of moments, we’ve already lost something sacred.

When I wrote my song Free Like a Bird, it was about that same feeling — the tension between control and freedom. Between being monitored and being understood. Technology can set us free, but only if it serves the person, not the system.

We stand at a crossroads. We can build a future where AI enhances care — or one where it empties it of feeling. The difference will depend on one thing: whether we still believe that empathy matters.

As we embrace the machines, let’s not forget the miracle of being human.